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Is Stress Spillover Screwing Up Your Relationship?

A recent study examined how unnecessary stress may build up and ultimately affect your relationship.

Even the greatest relationships can suffer from high-stress levels. A recent study reveals that stressors in your life may alter how you view your partner.

Based on a study presented in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science, stressed-out married persons are more likely to notice their spouse’s negative behavior than their positive behavior, such as “dishes in the sink.”

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In other words, stress may be related to what people do and observe in their relationships.

Relationship outcomes have previously been predicted by utilizing individual attributes (such as personality traits) and relationship characteristics (such as commitment and communication patterns).

Understand Your Triggers.

Here, it’s important to be aware of how stress impacts us right now.

According to research, people are more likely to identify that stressors may skew their perceptions of the relationship when conscious of their stress levels. As a result, they can attempt to make amends.

Concentrate on circumstances that typically cause a strong emotional reaction to help you identify your triggers.

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Learn to express these situations verbally to yourself and your spouse once you recognize them as triggers, especially ones from outside the relationship.

Spend Some Time Relaxing.

Get some space from your companion so that you don’t damage the relationship’s feelings with a poor attitude. A person’s stress was less likely to spill over and damage the relationship if they retreated from their partner and took time to emotionally recharge after a very difficult workday.