One partner can propose but be rejected. There’s no reason why you can’t stay together in a relationship if you’re not ready for marriage. It happens more often than you think. Staying together and postponing the wedding is possible. Others may see an engagement as a Band-Aid. Jumping into marriage is the easiest way to bypass the problem.
Need To Say No? Let Them Down Gently
Honesty and consideration for your partner’s feelings are essential. Despite your answer, express your concern for your partner and explain why you chose to answer that way. Turning down a proposal requires courage, but be sure to reassure your partner that you love them first.
A Public Proposal Is Harder To Reject
Do you have to say yes to avoid embarrassing your partner? According to psychologist Sarah Schewitz, founder of Couples Learn.com, you should follow your instincts and do what feels right.
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There Is Hope After Failed Proposals
Your relationship does not have to end after an unsuccessful proposal. Whether or not they are ready for marriage, the person who rejected the proposal must emphasize how much they love their partner.
Be Introspective After Rejection
Embrace compassion for yourself and your partner. Ask yourself: Why do I value marriage? Is marriage necessary for me? Why or why not? Does this partnership satisfy you? How could it be better? How do I view marriage? Is it similar or different from my partner? Is there a future for me?
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What Do You Need Before Moving Ahead?
Before you say yes, consider what needs to happen. Do you need to address issues in the relationship? Before making a lifelong commitment, should you get to know your partner better?
What About Communication?
No relationship can exist without communication. Consider how you and your partner communicate. Address any communication gaps and any misread signs.